Avoid dating damaged destructive women

Also, forgiveness is for when someone has a) stopped doing the harmful thing and b) apologized.

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I am a 34 year old straight woman in an open marriage with a 39 year straight man.

I have taken far more advantage of the openness of our marriage than my husband, at least until recently.

Have you had a “Hey, this isn’t really working” conversation before now? Would you have described yourself as “happily married” before you saw them together? Whatever the answers are, taking your mom on a date to your favorite local moving her shit into your house (which is still your house…I think? I REPEAT: ALL IS NOT WELL.” It’s nice that you are thinking about the possibility of forgiveness for your husband (after you break them up somehow, of course), but my read on this situation is that there is no going back to any kind of happy equilibrium in these relationships.

) are not the stealthy moves of professional secret keepers, y’all. He’s always going to be the guy who dated your mom.

Your mom is always going to be the mom who dated your husband.

You’re framing it as “” but your husband did just as much stealing and breaking of trust.

There has always been something lurking beneath the surface with them and since I haven’t been living with my husband for a long time, I guess she made her move and he couldn’t resist or maybe it was the other way around.

Knowing I can’t go back to my life as it once was makes me miss it so much.

My mother is 54 years old and is breathtakingly beautiful and, unlike me, hasn’t let her body go.

My husband, who is also handsome and fit, looked like he was happier than I had ever seen him.

I can forgive my husband but I could never forgive her and I can’t tolerate the fact that they are together. The references to the lube and the “perfect body”…this can’t be real.

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