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Harder than exams and the cold winter, dating in Denmark is a struggle that none of us expected to be so difficult.

“Attempting to date a Dane is a strenuous process, a journey filled with bad pilsner, dark jokes, uncomfortable silences and questions. If you think about it, it’s a beautiful thought: it doesn’t matter which country you come from, your age, skin colour or psychological trauma, nobody succeeds at dating a Dane.

Whatever you do, frame it in a way to show how it’s helping people.

I really suggest guys prepare a little speech to this extent before they start to meet women in Denmark. As a matter of fact, if you’re hoping to meet women in Denmark, do a little preparation beforehand.

I get a lot of mail from readers of this site, but a lot of the mail I get is on one particular topic. And I can tell you now, most of them will not immediately reject you because you have a different skin color.

Here’s one from this week, from Teddy in Ghana: I WANT TO KNOW IF DANES WOMEN WILL DATE A GHANAIAN MAN. And one from last month, from Alex: “Hi, I’d like to know if Danish girls would date a bi-racial Brazilian guy.” And one from late last year: “I’m a gay African American male who would like to date a Dane. ” Basically, a lot of the mail I get is from men, wanting to know how they can get some action in Denmark. I know of several babies of mixed heritage here in Denmark.

While I can’t offer any personal insights on gay dating in Denmark, I can tell you that male-female dating in Denmark is hard, even for the Danes, and it will probably be hard for you too.

That’s because the process that works in much of the rest of the Western world doesn’t work in Denmark. But first, let me tell you another thing that will get you rejected.In most parts of the world, a man will see a woman he likes, and he’ll approach her. Maybe he’ll ask if he can buy her a coffee, or some other type of drink. I’ll call it Manhattan behavior, because it was the way people dated when I lived in New York City.If they’re in a nightclub, he might ask her if she’d like to dance, or maybe go outside and get some fresh air. In fact, they will get you rejected, and then you’ll worry that that you’re being rejected because you’re a foreigner. Danes are not good with strangers, any type of stranger. Men would tell a lady how much money they made, and how much money they were going to make, how much power and influence they had, and how expensive their watch was. First of all, if you have money in Denmark, the government’s going to take it all away.Taking a Cuban girl out of the Caribbean and putting her in the middle of Aarhus is something you simply CANNOT do. Education is great, but there are some subjects missing.The international community – in this case a bunch of desperate female students – is concerned about this and we think Danish authorities should address this problem as soon as possible.Don’t tell a girl, as I have seen done, yeah, Hmmm…sounds great.

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